BENEDICT JOSEPH DULASKI II (“Ben”) 81, of Avon, passed from this life on November 28, 2019. He was the son of Benedict Joseph Dulaski and Virginia Cunningham. His parents met in Moscow, where his father was with the U.S. State Department, and his mother was studying concert piano with the Moscow Conservatory of Music. Ben was born on May 8, 1938, in Helsinki, Finland; then Mom & Ben returned to Moscow to re-join Dad.
They remained in Moscow until late in 1941, when they returned to the United States. They got the last boat out of Lisbon before arriving in New York on December 8, 1941, one day after Pearl Harbor was bombed, the day that war was declared on Japan. The ship that they arrived home on was subsequently sunk by U-boats.
They moved to Rockville, Maryland, where his sister, Ilona Anne Dulaski was born on February 9, 1942. They grew up there, surrounded by his father’s family, until June of 1951, when the family moves to Mexico City, Mexico. Ben’s father was the head of the Audio-Visual Department with the Information Service (USIS), then a division of the State Department.
They remained in Mexico City until August of 1956. Ben received his high school diploma from The American School, Mexico City, Mexico, and the family returned to Bethesda, Maryland.
Later in August, 1956, Ben began as a freshman at the College of William & Mary. Ben was in ROTC, was a member of Lambda Chi Alpha fraternity and served in student government yearly. He graduated from William & Mary in 1960, with a bachelor’s degree in Political Sciences. In the fall of 1960, he began his work on his Master’s Degree in International Affairs Political Science from George Washington University in Washington, DC.
On April 11, 1962, Ben began active duty in the Army as a Second Lieutenant. From June 1962 through June, 1964, he was stationed at Fort Holabird in Dundalk, Maryland, Army Intelligence headquarters.
In July, 1962, he was married to Christine Faye Harms.
In June, 1964, he left active duty, remaining in the Army reserves, and applied to the Central Intelligence Agency. While his security background was being checked (a lengthy process at the time), he returned to Washington, DC and finished his Master’s Degree, working at Geico at night, and monitoring study halls at Strayer Business College.
In Nov. 1964, Ben started with the CIA. In the summer of 1965, he was stationed in Jerusalem for 4 months. From Feb 1966 through March, 1968, he was sent to Afghanistan. He received his Master’s degree in absentia. While in Afghanistan, he sang in a barbershop quartet called “The Kabulaires.”
In June 1967, he obtained rank of Captain with the U.S. Army. In March of 1968, he and Christine returned to US from Afghanistan via the SS United States. He worked in the Personnel-Retirement branch of the CIA, and then with the Western Hemisphere Division.
On July 15, 1969, his daughter Meredith Lynne Dulaski was born.
Frustrated with the lack of foreign assignments, Ben left the CIA in August, 1970, and went to work for Indiana University in Bloomington, Indiana, with the Department of Institute for Research in Public Safety. It was here that he met Hillard Trubitt, who was to become Ben’s lifelong friend.
On December 19, 1972, his son Eric Benedict Dulaski was born.
In 1978, Ben left IU to go to work for First Wisconsin National Bank, in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.
In 1984, his marriage to Christine ended, and he married Linda Jones. He returned to Indianapolis in 1985, and started a packing and shipping store. In August of 1991, he returned to employment with Indiana University. In 1999, his marriage to Linda ended.
In 2003, he met Karen K Temple; they married in 2005, in Kitty Hawk, North Carolina. In 2004, he retired from Indiana University.
“Brilliant, generous, genuine, caring, fiercely loyal, adventurous, gentle, irreverent, gregarious, charming, whimsical, wit, a mensch” were some of the many descriptions given by Ben’s friends and family. Ben loved travel, and had been to Russia, Finland, Mexico, Afghanistan, Israel, Greece, Iran, France, Belgium, Turkey and Pakistan. Ben and Karen visited Key West, Walt Disney World, Vancouver, the British Virgin Islands, Mexico City, the Sierra Madre Express in Mexico, the Western Caribbean, Alaska, the South Seas Islands, Hawaii, the Galapagos Islands, and the Sea of Cortez.
Ben also enjoyed performing in theatre. At the Little Theatre of Bedford, he performed in several productions, including the lead in “Father of the Bride”. He performed with the Putnam County Playhouse in the productions of “The Sound of Music”, “State Fair”, “My Three Angels”, “Singing in the Rain”, and “Don’t Drink the Water”. He was a member of the Silver Lining Players in Greencastle, Indiana, and in connection with that group, he and Karen were able to perform the play “Love Letters” in October of 2018.
Ben is survived by his wife, Karen K Temple; his children, Meredith L. Dulaski Scheopner, of Holly Springs, NC, and Eric B. Dulaski (Allison) of Fuquay Varina, NC; his sister, Ilona Dulaski Williams, of Annapolis, MD; his beloved grandchildren, Paige, Logan and Mason; and six step-children, Chris (Jocelyn) Jones of Chicago, IL; Karen Jones, of Fort Wayne, IN; Craig (Kathleen) Jones, of West Lafayette, IN; Scott Temple Robertson, of Grand Rapids, MI; Stephanie Temple Robertson, of Aurora, CO; and Drew Alderson, of Aurora, CO. He is also survived by his faithful dog, Annie.
Interment at Arlington National Cemetery will be on Friday, August 28, 2020 at 3:00 p.m.
Contributions may be made in lieu of flowers to either the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, or to the Nature Conservancy.
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